Monday 21 July 2014

The importance of discussing your funeral wishes

A funeral is an occasion in which family members can celebrate your lifetime and pay their respects, however many people find this an uncomfortable topic to discuss.

Research conducted by Dying Matters (May 2014) has found that worryingly, just 29% of people have discussed their wishes regarding what they would like to happen once they pass away.

Dying Matters are an organisation who promotes open dialogue surrounding subjects that are often avoided but are very important.

Discussing your funeral preferences with your loved ones will not only make planning your funeral easier, but will give them the peace of mind that your service is carried out in a way that you would appreciate and that has your own personal touches.

Even if you have outlined your funeral preferences in your Will, discussing them with your family members can help make the whole experience feel more personal and fitting to your memory. It also gives them the opportunity to contribute their own ideas and helps them to pay their respects in a way that is both personal to them and yourself.

Taking the time to talk to family members about the financial aspects of planning your funeral can help a great deal. Regardless of whether you have taken out a life insurance policy, a Funeral Plan, or perhaps have savings put aside for the purpose of financing your funeral, making sure your loved ones are aware of these can help ensure that they are prepared when the time comes.


Talking openly about matters such as funerals and passing away can solve a great deal of problems and potentially avoid family arguments when people are feeling emotional. Although at first it seems difficult, comfort and support can be found from those who have gone through similar experiences.

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